Everything else in life can be changed and improved, so why not start with our attitude? Why not us, why not now?
By Prof Aecio D’Silva
AquaUniversity.com
Everything else in life can be changed – We all know that life is not a bed of roses. Nothing is easy, nothing comes free. Life can sometimes be downright unfair. But don’t forget that everything else in life can be changed and improved, starting with your attitude. Here are some simple but powerful reminders of the superpower to have a positive-creative attitude in your daily life:
Everything else in life can be changed and improved, starting with your attitude.
The most important thing to realize is that you have the power to change yours to a positive-creative one. You can start this process right now by following these steps:
• Make a list of all the things in your life that have been negative and aren’t worth fighting for. These are things you don’t like, or they’ve made you unhappy, but they’re not worth beating yourself up over or dwelling on.
• Write down a list of all the things in your life that are positive and worth fighting for. These are things that elevate your soul or give you joy but also require effort on your part to maintain. Think about how much time and energy it would take to lose those blessings (or how much time and energy it will take).
• Now, look at both lists side-by-side—what can be done with what remains? You may want to remove some items from one list because they’re too difficult or unrealistic; this is fine! Don’t let other people tell you what should be important enough for them (and if someone does tell you “It’s impossible”, then ignore them!). Remember the honeybees, from the aerodynamics principles, it is impossible honeybees fly, but they don’t pay attention to what the specialists say, and honeybees fly anyway.
As you grow older, you’re going to discover that you have two hands: one for helping yourself, and the other for helping others.
What does this quote mean to you? How can you apply it to your life?
• What are some examples of how you have helped others?
• What are some examples of how you have helped yourself?
Everything else in life can be changed – Your job won’t take care of you when you are ill. Your parents and real friends will. Stay in touch.
You can’t expect your job to take care of you when you are sick. Your parents and real friends will. Stay in touch with these people, even if they aren’t always around or available. They will be there for you when things get tough, even if it’s just a phone call or a text message saying, “I’m thinking about you.”
Don’t pay attention to the people who don’t clap when you win; seek respect, not attention. Don’t compare your life to others. Every person has their own path to follow, and no one’s journey is identical. And if someone does try to bring you down or make fun of you for something that happened in your past—don’t let it get to you! Remember that everyone fails sometimes (and then learns from those failures).
Everything else in life can be changed – Don’t compare your life to others. There’s no comparison between the moon and the sun. They shine when it’s their time.
It’s easy to get caught up in comparing yourself to other people. You see someone who has a job you want, and it makes you wonder why they have what you don’t. Or maybe the person who got promoted is someone who graduated before you did and seems to be doing better than ever.
But we’re all on our own paths, with different points of origin and destinations. It’s not fair or right to compare your life to others, as there are so many factors at play that make each person unique—their experiences, their talents, their values—and these things all factor into how successful they are and what kinds of opportunities come their way. So instead of focusing on whether other people have more or less than you do, focus on what’s inside of yourself: your attitude, passion for learning new things (or improving in an area), work ethic, creativity… These things are yours alone!
Don’t pay attention to the people who don’t clap when you win.
One of the easiest ways to improve your life is to stop paying attention to the people who don’t clap when you win.
Be prepared, some people are going to be negative and hard on you—whether it’s because they want your spot, or just because they’re a jerk. And while it can be tempting to let their negativity affect your day and future plans, it’s not worth it. If someone doesn’t like what you do or think well of what you do, that’s their problem! So don’t let them get under your skin—you’re too awesome for that anyway!
Work hard in silence let success make the noise
• Work hard in silence, let success make the noise.
• Don’t be afraid of failure.
• Don’t be afraid of success.
• Don’t be afraid of being wrong.
• Don’t be afraid of being right.
• Don’t be afraid of what people think of you, they don’t do it very often anyway
Nobody is going to give you success, you must go out & get it yourself- that’s why You’re here!
Success is earned, not given. Nothing is easy, nothing comes free! Move and fight for what you want to accomplish in your life.
You can’t just sit back and expect success to come to you. Success isn’t a right that’s granted by others—it’s a privilege that comes with arduous work, determination, and perseverance. If you want to be successful in life, then you need to work hard at it. You’ll have to take risks (and yes, some will fail), but the more risks you take, and challenges overcome, the more likely your success will be realized.
When looking for ways in which we can improve upon our lives or achieve our goals (whatever those may be), don’t forget about the power of a positive-creative attitude! Your attitude determines who you are and what you want out of life: someone with an optimistic mindset will likely get more than someone who is pessimistic or negative about their situation.
Life is 1% what happens to you and 99% how you react to it
Life is 1% what happens to you and 99% how you react to it. Your attitude, your beliefs, and your actions are the key factors that determine how positive-creative or unhappy you are and will be.
Being positive-creative or negative is your decision
You can choose to be positive-creative or negative.
• Focus on the positive, not the negative.
• Don’t take things personally.
• Don’t let others’ opinions affect you.
• Don’t compare yourself to others, because you’re never going to be able to compete with them in a way that makes sense for your life. (The only person who has ever been able to objectively rate your achievements is yourself.) In this context, “others” includes people who are more successful than you and people who aren’t as successful as you (or so it may seem). Instead of focusing on all that is wrong with your life and comparing it with other people’s lives/achievements/bodies/etc., try focusing on what makes you happy and enjoying the process of working toward those goals rather than worrying about outcomes or blaming yourself or others when things don’t work out exactly how they were supposed to be (or even how they might have been if they hadn’t been affected by external factors).
Take a moment to realize how far you’ve come and appreciate all the good things in your life – Start with Your Family!!!
Take a moment to realize how far you’ve come and appreciate all the good things in your life. You may have had some challenges and difficulties but look at what you’ve accomplished!
You should be proud of yourself for making it this far. If things are not going well for you right now or if you feel like life isn’t treating you fairly, remember that there’s always something positive about any situation: You can find something good no matter what is happening around you. When everything seems dark and gloomy, remember that there is still some light left even if it’s hard to see at first glance.
Conclusion – Everything else in life can be changed and improved, how about your attitude?
I hope you enjoyed this look into the world of Lean-Agile Personal and Business Quality Leadership Systems and how it can help you by having a positive-creative attitude in your daily life. There’s no need to be down on yourself or your situation because there are always ways to improve yourself and be positive-creative with what you have. Remember that we all have flaws and strengths, but those strengths and flaws make us who we are!
